MAY 2008
 

FATHER CEDRIC PISEGNA, C.P.
FATHER AMARO SAUMELL
CATHOLICVIEW STAFF



FATHER CEDRIC PISEGNA, C.P.
”Do I still merit salvation if my actions do not reflect it?”
- David

Father Cedric:

As a believer, I wish to understand the Catholic perspective of how to reconcile the doctrines of salvation by grace vs. salvation by good works.  If I believe in Jesus as Savior but my actions do not reflect it, do I still merit salvation? Thank you.

David:

Just how we are saved is a notion that has been debated through the ages.  I think it was the major cause of division at the time of reformation. (1500’s)  Now, however, much headway has been made in the area of ecumenism.  We Catholics see things more closely with other denominations than you might think.

Years ago I wrote a book called Live Passionately!   I addressed this issue and here is an excerpt from my book: “An interesting event happened in our Church that caught my eye.  It was in the newspapers and perhaps you saw it.  Catholics and Lutherans finally reached agreement about salvation.  A disagreement over how to achieve salvation was the core issue that led Martin Luther to split the Western Christian Church with the reformation.   Simply put, Protestants have believed that salvation comes through faith alone, while Catholics have taught that it is a combination of faith and good works that saves.

Listen to this recent statement from the “Joint Declaration on Justification (salvation) by Faith” “Together we confess: By grace alone, in faith in Christ’s saving work and not because of any merit on our part, we are accepted by God and receive the Holy Spirit, who renews our hearts while equipping and calling us to good works.”   It is not by faith and good works that saves.  Our Church teaches that we are saved by faith in Jesus and that this faith spurs us on to do good works.  We are not saved by our works or by our own goodness.  The point here is that salvation comes from the free unconditional love of God and is not dependent on our goodness.”

In answer to your second question, no one can “merit” salvation.  We all deserve to die.  However, through Christ’s sacrifice on the Cross, we can receive salvation.  Our deeds will never measure up, but we must strive for holiness. Our growth and good works are the flipside of faith.  Faith without actions is dead. Faith with action is effective.  I pray that you will keep striving to grow in good works and holiness.  All the while may your faith in Jesus and salvation grow stronger.  Fr. Cedric

 


”Can you give me information on “Houses Of Prayer”
according to Catholic tradition? – J.R.

Father Cedric:

I am a high school teacher and was recently asked a question about "Houses of Prayer" according to the Catholic tradition by a student. I was trying to help them find the answer to their question and have no idea. Could you help? The question reads exactly as follows: Name all the Houses of Prayer (according to the Catholic tradition—includes all Orthodox faiths). Include the times for these Houses of Prayer, too. Thank you. – J.R.

J.R.:

I’m not quite sure exactly what you are referring to here. You may be after a major basilica such as the four churches in Rome, Italy. Most likely you are referring to the local churches near you. Jesus called the Jewish temple built by King Herod “a house of prayer for all people.” (Mt. 21:13) The prophet Isaiah also refers to   in his writings. (Is. 56:7) The Catholic church has “church buildings” that are houses of prayer, although we don’t explicitly refer to them as such. Any place where one gathers to pray could be called a house of prayer. In fact the early Christians used to assemble in their homes to pray. Even now the family unit is called the domestic church. So if I were to name all the houses of prayer, I would name each Catholic Church building and designate them “houses of prayer.”

In terms of times, we are obligated to assemble for Sunday Eucharist each week. We believe that this is a divine command of the Lord himself. “Keep Holy the Sabbath.” For Christians, our Sabbath is the Day of Resurrection, Sunday. We also have a Vigil Mass beginning on Saturday afternoon. You can choose to go to any of the Masses from Saturday afternoon, Sunday morning, through Sunday evening. The times vary depending on your local Catholic Church. – Father Cedric


”Why do we say we offer God the Body and the Blood of
Jesus Christ?” - Jane

Father Cedric:

 I don't understand why we say "I offer you the body and blood, soul and divinity of your dearly beloved son..." How did we come to be offering God his own Son? He already gave us Jesus in atonement for our sins, and those of the whole world. Are we offering God Jesus back, so that together we can continue to pay for the sins of the whole world? Confusing. Anyway, thank you for discussing this with me and thinking about it with me. – Jane

Jane:

Thanks for allowing me to share some thoughts on this matter.  What you are surfacing really has to do with Eucharist (another name for the Mass) itself.  During Eucharist the one sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross is “re-presented” and celebrated.  At Mass we dynamically remember what Jesus did for us so powerfully, that his sacrifice on the cross is powerfully present and offered to God once again.  We simply offer to God what he has given to us, his Son.  We recognize that we need redemption and salvation.  We believe that it is only through the cross of Christ that we are saved and made holy. Rather than offering God the blood of goats and bulls or lambs (as in the Old Testament) we offer to God the spotless blood of the Lamb of God.  Instead of trying to offer to God our good works, which are tainted and not perfect, we offer to God the perfect sacrifice of Jesus on the Cross.  We believe that the cross is efficacious and powerful. His blood cleanses our conscience from dead works to serve the living God.  His blood forgives our sins.  His body broken restores us and reconciles us to God.  So the offering is twofold: We offer Jesus to God and we receive the effects of this offering. (especially in communion) We have no greater sacrifice to offer than what God has given us.

We do not offer Jesus back so that together we can pay for our sins.  Rather we offer Jesus back because he alone saves us.  This is our way of celebrating and receiving what he has done for us.  In our offering, we receive him once again and allow him to cleanse and heal us through the Eucharist.   Our silver and gold and good works are not valuable before God. Only Jesus is the precious sacrifice worthy of God.  In the Catholic tradition we give to God what he has given to us (Jesus) in order to be saved and purified.  I have written a book Eucharist: A Living Sacrifice that explains all this in greater detail.  I hope you will get it through my website: www.frcedric.org  God Bless you and you search for deeper understanding.  Fr. Cedric


FATHER AMARO SAUMELL

”Is it acceptable to study the Kabbalah as a Catholic?” - Dawn

Father Amaro:

Is it acceptable to study the Kabbalah as a Catholic? Thank you for your help. - Dawn

 

Dear Dawn:

There’s nothing wrong with any type of religious studies to understand the cults for purposes of understanding their error. Kabbalah of course is now another “pop cult” for those who are caught up in following real theological minds like Madonna. (Sorry, I could not help it.) During the 60's the pop cult was Hari Krishna. Every age seems to have its pop cults for the adolescent minded who find it’s their thing to do the common trend. Many of these cults are the same old things with different names. And, I suppose it’s good to be familiar with their errors. But I’d ask you if you’ve put as much energy in learning your own faith first with at last the same fervor.  It’s good to challenge yourself as to why you would even be drawn to something like this one particular religion, especially in light of the morals or lack thereof that are displayed by those who embrace it. A few years ago, the big thing was the Bahia Faith. What next? Actually, I find it much more productive to move more deeply into the religion that brings us into the depth of God’s love, one that doesn’t merely point to a selfish “self realization,” but to act inwardly and outwardly to love neighbor and love God. I guess I’m more interested in that which brings us to eternal life.  God bless, Fr. Amaro



”Is praying to the Saints or Mary something God approves
of?
Is it in the bible? - Mitch

Father Amaro:

Where in the Bible does it say that praying to the Saints or Mary something that God approves of? – Mitch

 

Dear Mitch,

Hey that’s a good one. That’s like, “Where in the bible does it say “trinity” or where does it say one must accept Jesus as a “personal Lord and Savior? The Church is older than the New Testament. It was the Apostolic Succession that had to approve what into the New Testament, and not the other way around. The Scriptures themselves attest to the fact that not everything is contained in them.

Again, what did Jesus say? "I am the resurrection and the life: whoever believes in me, though he should die, will come to life; and whoever is alive and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?"

So we ask ourselves “Do we believe this?... never die? There is a contemporary error of projecting today’s meaning on word of the past. It is a problem when languages evolve. But the original meaning of the word “pray” never meant “worship.” It meant to make a request. Shakespeare used it all the time; “I pray thee this or that...” And if one believes that “and whoever is alive and believes in me will never die... “ and one believes that the baptized are one body in Christ, why can’t we request for each other. We often ask each other for prayers.  If you have relatives who have died, do you believe that they’re stuck in the ground or some urn on a shelf? Or is that merely a witness to their trust in the resurrection? People get very confused about such things because they really don’t know if they know their own faith. Why do they say that someone is with God now if they really believe that their loved one is rotting in the ground? I hear these things and say to myself, “Make up MY mind...”..while shaking my head.

As Jesus said, those who are alive in Him shall NEVER die. And if we are all one body in Christ, all alive in Christ, what is so unusual about praying, asking, for prayers. Don’s you ask your friends for prayers? You are actually “praying” for their prayers. This practice pre-dates the compilation of the New Testament. Remember, the Church approved the text of the New Testament. It wasn’t the New Testament that compiled the Church.

If we’re going to use scripture in the manner you are suggesting, it can be very confusing. In the first three Gospels, Jesus is on a continual journey to Jerusalem. In John’s Gospel, Jesus is back and forth to Jerusalem on a regular basis.  Jesus dies at Passover on the first three Gospels. In John’s Gospel, Jesus dies on a different day all together, the day that the Passover Lamb is slaughtered. Which is it? And, if John quotes Jesus four times in a row to say “unless you eat my body and drink my blood...” and so many just want to make the Blessed Sacrament a “token” or something that menial, what does that say?

No, it’s is the Holy Spirit working through the Apostolate that Jesus established “till the ends of the earth” and gave authority over the discipleship that we look to when discerning the use of the scriptures. That’s the way Jesus, even as reflected in the Scriptures, established authority. “Whatever you hold bound on earth, shall be bound in heaven...” this is reflected in the Scriptures, but actually predates them. Don’t get it backwards.

Those who are alive in Christ are very alive and are all one as “the Father and I are one...” We can call on any one of them for the charitable act of prayer.  God bless, Fr. Amaro

 


”I want to become a priest but why do I feel rejected?” - Tim

Father Amaro:

I am in a process of discernment at 49 years young. I say "young" because I've been made to feel 490 years old by most Vocation Directors. God help! Abraham!
In any event, the real reason I experience rejection is because God has given me some very powerful evangelical gifts which apparently are intimidating; not to mention I'm FAITHFUL (i.e. NOT Liberal nor conservative). God's people have always loved me! That is a wonderful consolation all through the years of my ministry. Unfortunately, where I live we have real cover-up amongst our clergy regarding homosexuality and they know that I "know too much" and so I've been blacklisted from being of service. Interestingly, I've been contacted recently to think about radio which would be ever so timely to sound the great trumpet call about how our Church has been hijacked by these men; and let's not forget the feminist DREs, everywhere! Enough. The real issue here is whether I'm going to get a fair shake regarding priesthood because of my straight-forward masculine style or whether I'm going to be accused of "lacking charity" because I tell the truth and simply must do so as a Religious Educator. I have a hunch you probably understand my problem here. I sense that God may truly be calling me but He is not calling me to be a wimp. So far most of the vocation directors of the mainline Orders are right with them. Comments? Thank you Father! PS: Why are there not more Father Corapis? - Tim

Dear Tim,

I sense from the words you write, a great deal of conviction. But I don’t sense a great deal of humility, compassion, forgiveness, or understanding that all men “sin and are deprived of the glory of God.” Did you think all priests were perfect? I went to the same seminary as Fr. Corapi. I remember him well. He was a couple of years ahead. Don’t go by what you might perceive by his “persona” on T.V.. I can assure you that he is a very humble man. I never witnessed him pointing the finger at any individual. He speaks of sin, not of who or what he knows about individuals. I can guarantee that he spend more time in prayer for strength for sinners than any time looking to show how important he is by what he knows. He is a great example of a priest... who does not testify through speculation of what he “thinks” he knows about someone.

Only God knows the truth. And the only truth that we know is Jesus. All else is speculation. We have all been misjudged and know that we must never use what we “think” we know as a criteria. We conserve all truth and are liberal with compassion, humility, forgiveness, and love. A “calling” is merely presenting oneself and letting the Holy Spirit define through the authority of the Successors to the Apostles whether one has a vocation to the priesthood. We are one, holy, Catholic, and APOSTOLIC church. Calling does not come by way of “feeling” inspired. Calling comes from saying “Here I am Lord” and trusting that, if there is a calling, it will be confirmed through the authority that Jesus established.

Tim, quite honestly, I know that letters can’t really define the person, so I am not going to try to discern your vocation. But I can say that if your letter represents you truly, I really doubt if there is a true vocation. I am not witnessing the fruits of the Holy Spirit here. I don’t always recommend books from Tan Publishing Company because many aren’t mature enough spiritually to read and discern mystical writing. But I highly encourage you to obtain a copy of Humility Of Heart, By: Rev. Cajetan da Bergamo. Just read it a paragraph at a time and meditate on it. If you can grasp just a mere fraction of it and put it into practice in the way you view and describe others, you may have something worthy to present to your vocation director for discernment. If you find yourself angered by the mere suggestion of this reading, I think you can know that you don’t have a vocation. Humility and obedience are a must in any true vocation.  God bless, Fr. Amaro

 


“Is it wrong to “speak out” in support of gay marriage? - Machelle

Father:

Ever since I was very young, before I was even taught that homosexuality was a sin, I openly supported homosexual marriage. 7 years later as a college freshman, I am a faithful young woman with a renewed and grateful love of my faith, and I now know full well what the bible says about homosexuality. I no longer take a stance in debates or openly show my support for these unions and yet, I cannot find it in my heart to openly OPPOSE them either. I have tried, I have tried to see such things from God's view, from the Bible's teachings, but find it's all I can do to keep quiet while in a room debating the issue. Is it all right for me to do this, to simply stay out of the worldwide debate and hold my tongue, or is keeping silent as much of a sin as the act itself? Thank you for taking the time to read my letter. - Machelle

 

Dear Machelle,

What I am hearing here is that you are placing your feelings of discomfort over and above God’s design so others will “feel better” and be more comfortable with distorting God’s creative design. And please, I hope you’re not one of those who say “God created them that way.” Did God create you to sin? Is God responsible for your inclinations to sin? Is sin “OK” because everyone does it? If someone has had a problem with kleptomania ever since they can remember, is this God’s doing? Do we say, “It’s OK because you were born that way?

We were born with a disposition to love. Real love does no harm. It harms no one physically, emotionally, or spiritually... mot of all, in respect to their relationship to God. Yes, homosexuality is normal. It is the norm that we all deal with some aspect of sinfulness. It is normal that the world is in chaos.

Jesus came to save us from the normal, for the normal is sinful. If we participate with the normal, we have no place in God’s plan. Our natural state of the flesh is corrupt. We don’t look to be natural. We look to a resurrected life above the natural... the supernatural. That is what holiness is all about. We are compassionate with each other’s struggles because we have ours too. But we never compromise God’s will by approving or participating with the dysfunction of what is normal or natural in the nature of Adam and Eve. We are born again into the nature of Christ. Really think about this. Yes, have compassion on those with struggles. But participate with God’s healing will. God bless, Fr. Amaro

 


CATHOLICVIEW STAFF


”What is your definition of faith?” - Allison
 

CatholicView Staff:

What is your definition of faith? Do you feel that it is something static or something that can be questioned and grow and evolve over the course of a person's life?  Allison

Dear Allison:

Thank you for your question.

Hebrews 11:1 states “Faith is the substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.”   My faith entitles me to a relationship with God and Jesus Christ and it grows stronger each day with continuous prayer.  It cannot be proven but all humanity carries it in their hearts.   It only has to be accepted and believed.   If you have it, it is backed by the Holy Spirit Who lives within you; promised by Jesus just before He ascended into heaven to return to His Father. 

At the core of my faith is prayer that brings me closer to God

There are times when things don’t work out the way we expect or want them to, or when prayer does not seem to make things better, we begin to doubt our faith as Peter did when Jesus asked him to walk on water.  We, like Peter, question the validity of faith and just like him, when he began to doubt his faith, he began to sink into the water.  And so, I know my faith must flourish through the good and the bad of this life, allowing me to grow stronger and stronger.  It is faith that sustains even through bad times, and it is the main source of strength and courage that is worth hanging onto.  

Faith should never be static.  It should be a vital living part of who you are.  Allow your faith to grow and cultivate it through prayer.  Faith is knowing God is present within us and faith is accepting that I am loved. It is through faith I am saved. – CatholicView Staff

 
 “How do I tell my parents I am gay?” - Jesse

 

CatholicView Staff:


I recently have come to terms that I am gay.
I tried for many years to tell myself that I wasn't, but I can no longer lie to myself. The problem I face now is telling my family. They are very religious and believe that being gay is a sin. I do not agree, because I didn't choose to be gay. I knew when I was in kindergarten and I am 25 now. Is there any way that I can make them accept me as far as a religious standpoint?  Jesse

 

Dear Jesse:

This will depend on what you plan to do about your sexuality.    Unfortunately there is no set formula to make others accept our actions or way of life.  The wonderful thing is that your parents love you as you love them.

The Church clearly states it is not a sin to be homosexual, but you must not act on this orientation.  If you do, then you are sinning.  The Church sees any sex outside of marriage to be sinful whether it is between heterosexuals or homosexuals.   And marriage is only between a man and a woman.

Pray and ask the Lord to help you find a course of action concerning your parents.  May the Lord guide you in making the right decision.    CatholicView Staff

 
”When we pray, who are we supposed to address?”
- Beverly

CatholicView Staff:

When we pray, who are we supposed to address? I know Jesus is our mediator between God and us, but then I feel like I'm leaving GOD out if I don't address Him. I could start off saying "Lord", but there is the "Lord" God & the "Lord" Jesus Christ. I'm all mixed up & don't want to offend or leave out the Holy Spirit either. I know they are 3 in 1. HELP : )When we pray, who are we supposed to address? I know Jesus is our mediator between God and us, but then I feel like I'm leaving GOD out if I don't address Him. I could start off saying "Lord", but there is the "Lord" God & the "Lord" Jesus Christ. I'm all mixed up & don't want to offend or leave out the Holy Spirit either. I know they are 3 in 1. HELP.  - Beverly

 

Beverly:

Thank you for your question.  We must pray as our Savior taught us, using the Father’s name as Jesus taught us in Matthew 6:9.   The Lord’s Prayer is a perfect example of how we should pray.

Jesus also told us that when we pray, we should ask everything through His name at the end, saying  “We ask this through Your Son, Jesus, Christ”.   Jesus is our intercessor, our spiritual connector to God the Father.   It is through His sacrifice for us on the cross that we are able to approach God’s throne to ask for His help.  God be with you always. -  CatholicView Staff

 
”Which day was the Sabbath day of Jesus?” - Israel

CatholicView Staff:

Which day was the Sabbath day of Jesus:  Saturday or Sunday?  If it was Saturday why did Christianity changed it to Sunday? - Israel

Dear Israel:

In the Old Testament, the Jews observed the Sabbath on Saturday.  Jesus followed this Jewish tradition during His life on earth. 

Some Christians believe the early church began meeting on Sundays soon after Christ rose from the dead, in honor of the Lord's resurrection, which took place on a Sunday, or the first day of the week.    And Paul speaks of this first day of the week as Sunday in Acts20:7:  On the first day of the week we came together to break bread ( communion). Paul spoke to the people and, because he intended to leave the next day, kept on talking until midnight.”   

Sunday was the day that Jesus Christ rose from the dead and became for most of us the Sabbath.  Also, in the time after Jesus was crucified, believers chose Sunday as their holy Sabbath day and as their day of rest because they were afraid to worship on the Jewish Sabbath as Christians were likely to be killed for their belief.   They tried to find a safe place such as the catacombs, or they honored this day in the secrecy of their homes.

Christians believe that the Lord's command was not specifically on Saturday, but rather, one day out of the seven weekdays to observe this day of rest. By changing the Sabbath to Sunday (what many refer to as "the Lord's Day"), or the day the Lord was resurrected, they feel it symbolically represents the acceptance of Christ as Messiah, and His broadening blessing and redemption from the Jews to the entire world.

And so, over two thousand years later, Catholics and many other Christian denominations celebrate the Sabbath on Sunday. – CatholicView Staff


”What is the
Church's stance on a passage like Isaiah 53?”
- Dallas

CatholicView Staff:

I think I've read myself into a corner, so to speak. A Jewish friend of mine has shown me several places in the Old Testament trying to prove to me that Our Lord Jesus wasn't the Messiah. What is the church's stance on passage like Isaiah 53? - Dallas

 

Dear Dallas:

Most Jewish people do not believe that Jesus is the Messiah and therefore have closed their eyes to the Chapter of Isaiah 53, a prophetic message that was written 500 years before Jesus came to earth.

The passage from Isaiah 53 is a Messianic Chapter foretelling the coming of Jesus but many Jews do not want this interpreted this way.   Many claim it refers to Israel, rather than Jesus Christ.   As Christians we know this is in direct reference to the coming of our Lord.  It is also true that Isaiah Chapter 53 is many times not read or referred to at all in the synagogue because of its message.  Isaiah 52 is read during Jewish worship and Isaiah 54 is read in the Synagogue but Isaiah 53 is stricken altogether from their Tenach for the reason of its foretelling of the Messiah in astounding detail.

For our readers who have not read Isaiah Chapter 53:

"Who has believed our message and to whom has the arm of the LORD been revealed?  2He grew up before him like a tender shoot, and like a root out of dry ground. He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to Him, nothing in His appearance that we should desire Him. 3 He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide their faces He was despised, and we esteemed Him not.  4 Surely He took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered Him stricken by God, smitten by Him, and afflicted.  5 But he was pierced for our transgressions, He was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon Him, and by His wounds we are healed. 6 We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to His own way; and the LORD has laid on Him the iniquity of us all.  7 He was oppressed and afflicted, yet He did not open His mouth; He was led like a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is silent, so He did not open his mouth. 8 By oppression and judgment He was taken away.  And who can speak of His descendants? For He was cut off from the land of the living; or the transgression of my people He was stricken.  9 He was assigned a grave with the wicked, and with the rich in His death, though He had done no violence, nor was any deceit in His mouth.  10 Yet it was the LORD's will to crush Him and cause Him to suffer, and though the LORD makes His life a guilt offering,  He will see His offspring and prolong His days, and the will of the LORD will prosper in His hand.  11 After the suffering of His soul, He will see the light of life [and be satisfied; by His knowledge my righteous servant will justify many, and He will bear their iniquities.  12 Therefore I will give Him a portion among the great, and He will divide the spoils with the strong, because He poured out His life unto death, and was numbered with the transgressors.   For He bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.

Thank you for this great question you sent to us.  I believe it will benefit many Christians.  May the Lord bless you always. - CatholicView Staff 


”Please can you tell me where Cain's wife came from?  Alistair    

 

CatholicView Staff:

Please can you tell me where Cain's wife came from?”   Alistair   

 

Dear Alistair:

We have no proof of how Cain found his wife.  We only have speculation.  There are varied answers on where Cain’s wife possibly came from and how they came to be married.  Although their names are not recorded in Scripture, Adam and Eve probably had other children, including daughters—Cain may have married a sister but we cannot be sure of this.    Many believe this was necessary (for a time) to propagate the human race.   St. Augustine explained this in The City of God, Book XV.   When the necessity for sibling marriage ended so, too, did God’s allowance of it. 

Someday, all will be made known to us.   – CatholicView Staff

 
”If people have never heard of God or Jesus, will
they go to hell?” - Angie

CatholicView Staff:

Do people (like remote tribes e
tc.) go to Hell even if they've never even heard of any other religion other than their own? - Angie

 

Dear Angie:

God will be the final judge of those who have never heard of God or Jesus Christ. 

It is my belief that God’s goodness is written on the heart of all humanity.  And because of this, we actually know what is right and what is wrong, whether we know God or not.   Using this inborn trait, even those persons who do not know Jesus Christ as their Savior will try to do good if they listen with their hearts.  Those who turn away, however, knowing good from evil, will have to pay for their sins.  Those who do not know God because they have never been exposed to Him, but try to do their best with what they have such as helping others, living uprightly in spite of lack of knowledge will be rewarded someday.

God is a God of love and He can read the heart of every living person.  He knows everything about each of us.  Those who know who God is and those who know who the Savior is, but turn away from the truth they know, will have to answer to God at the final judgment. -  CatholicView Staff

 
”My co-worker says Catholics aren’t bound to any beliefs. 
Is this true?” - Denise

CatholicView Staff:

A co-worker claims to be Catholic but his knowledge of the Bible, commitments and beliefs seem like the delusions of a madman.  He claims Catholics aren't bound to any beliefs, they do what they want. This isn't true is it?  He seems delusional or terribly ill informed. – Denise

 

Denise:

Unfortunately, this co-worker is speaking from lack of knowledge.    As Christians we are all bound to what God and our Savior Jesus Christ taught us.  Each of us, as believers, must follow the authority of our Lord.  If we decide to “do what we want” and ignore what God has set out for us to do, we risk losing our souls.  If we are Christians, we follow Christian precepts taught by Jesus Christ, not our own.   Bottom line.

Please pray for your co-worker that he may read the bible with faith.  CatholicView Staff


”Is belonging to a Masonic Lodge against Church

teaching?” - Linda

CatholicView Staff:

My husband is Catholic and belongs to a Masonic Lodge. I think this is against the Church. What is the true teaching of the Catholic Church? - Linda

 

Linda:

Thank you for your question.  You are correct in this.  I am sending you a link to a Catholic article posted in The Boston Pilot explaining why Catholics should not belong to a Masonic Lodge:

http://www.thebostonpilot.com/articlearchives.asp?ID=5150

This article says in part:  The question repeatedly arises, and the answer is still no, a Vatican official reminded participants at a recent conference on Freemasonry.

The worldwide fraternal group certainly accomplishes impressive charitable works, as its 22 Shriners Hospitals for Children attest.

But Freemasonry’s core philosophy is incompatible with the Catholic faith, noted Bishop Gianfranco Girotti at a forum on the issue at Rome’s St. Bonaventure Pontifical Theological Faculty, Zenit news reported.”
– CatholicView Staff


”Why can’t I take communion in the Catholic Church
if I am not Catholic?” - Paul

CatholicView Staff:

Why, if I really believe in God, even though my wife thinks I don't, can't I receive the Holy Eucharist? I can receive it in my church, when they have it, so would I be committing a sin if I took it in the Catholic Church? - Paul

 

Dear Paul:

Often non-Catholics are surprised and even annoyed when they learn that they cannot partake in the Eucharistic celebration during mass. They feel excluded by the Church and offended.

The Catholic Church believes that Holy Communion is only for those who profess the Catholic faith and follow the tenets of Catholicism.  Catholics believe that the bread and wine changes into the actual body and blood of Christ.   Some non-Catholics believe it is symbolic.

The Eucharist is only for those who believe it to be the body and blood of Jesus Christ in accord with the teachings of the Catholic Church.  Because the Eucharist is not a symbol, but really the body and blood of Christ, it has power. This entails responsibility for Catholics. This begins to get to the heart of why non-Catholics cannot participate.  It is not to be mean or judgmental.

The following are two links that will explain fully the reasons non-Catholics cannot take communion in the Catholic Church:

http://www.catholic.com/thisrock/2003/0302sbs.asp or go to this link:

http://www.deoomnisgloria.com/archives/2004/02/why_cant_noncat.html

The non-Catholic can, however, go forward with arms folded across the chest during the serving of communion and receive a blessing from the priest or the Minister of the Eucharist. – CatholicView Staff


”Can I ask Jesus to redirect my prayers?” - John

CatholicView Staff:

Hi, I sometimes pray for the souls of dead family members just in case they are in purgatory.  But what happens to the prayers if they are in heaven? Can I ask Jesus to redirect them to whoever needs them?
Thank you. - John

 

Dear John:

God hears all prayers and knows what is in your heart.  Leave it to the Lord to sort all matters out.  Our God knows even the number of hairs are on our head.  God bless you.  -   CatholicView Staff


”If a person is good but does not believe in Jesus
or God, will God turn them away?” - Ryan

CatholicView Staff:

If a person who does not believe in Jesus/God but lives a happy successful life (marriage, kids, being kind and honest everyday), does God give them a second chance or do they get turned away? - Ryan

 

Dear Ryan: 

God is the only Judge, and we are basically “ignorant” when it comes to God’s Ways.  We cannot even perceive what God has in His Mind and Will for each of us.   In regards to people, as you say, that are good but do not believe or accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, I ask you to read Saint Paul’s letter to the Romans (Romans 2:12-16) when he says of pagans (unbelievers) who are good:  “Indeed, when the Gentiles, who do not have the Law, do by nature things required by the Law, they are a law for themselves even though they do not have the Law, since they show that the requirements of the Law are written on their hearts, their consciences also bearing witness, and their thoughts now accusing, now even defending them.”  Everyone will be saved by the Blood of Christ who have the “law” written in their hearts and act upon it even though they may not acknowledge and place their faith in the One who will save them.  In the end, it is God who decides who is saved and who is not.  But Saint Paul’s words are hopeful.  Those who are “Christians” in word and deed, even though they may not acknowledge Jesus Christ in outward faith, will be saved.  – CatholicView Staff


”I do not believe in transubstantiation.  Can I still
serve as Minister of the Eucharist?” -
Graham

CatholicView Staff:

I am a
Catholic convert of 40 years, but I do not believe in transubstantiation. Do you think it is wrong for me to continue to receive communion in the mass, and to be a minister of the Eucharist? - Graham

 

Graham:

I am concerned that you do not believe and accept the truth that the elements of bread and wine are somehow and miraculously changed into the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ after the words of consecration during the Eucharistic Prayer of the Mass.  In the Gospel of John (John 6:53-58), John states quite clearly about the truth of the mystery of Holy Communion:  “If you do not eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you will not have life in you.   Anyone who does eat My flesh and drink My blood has eternal life.”  What is it about this gospel verse that you do not accept?  If you cannot acclaim the infallible truth that Jesus is actually present in the communion elements, then your ministry as a Eucharistic minister must end since you do not believe in what you are doing.  – CatholicView Staff


”Is it a sin not to respect a parent who was abusive
to me?” - Coleen

CatholicView Staff:

If a parent was abusive to a child is it a sin not to respect that parent today? - Coleen

 

Dear Coleen:

The commandment, “Honor your father and mother,” would be difficult to keep when those parents have been abusive and destructive in your life.  There is nothing we can do about the past except to confront it and live in the present.  You are doing that now.  Confronting the past, trying to understand it, is painful but it frees you to live in the present and plan for a beautiful tomorrow.   And that is the hope that our faith in Jesus Christ gives us:  for every “death,” there is a resurrection.  For every pain, there is healing.  For every tear, there will be joy.  Sometimes the only way anyone can be respectful to an abusive parent is to maintain distance for your sake and theirs.   Maybe, you can reconcile with your parents.  Maybe you can’t.  But always be grateful for the gift of life that you received from them despite their own inability to be the parents that you wanted and needed them to be.  - CatholicView Staff


”If I have sex before marriage will God ever forgive
me?” - Jillian

CatholicView Staff:

I know sex before marriage is a sin, but my faith has taken a backseat to the rest of my life as I get older.   If I have sex before marriage will God ever forgive me? And what can I do to receive forgiveness? -  Jillian

 

Dear Jillian:

God always forgives if we go to Him and ask for forgiveness with a promise to do our very best not to repeat that sin again. 

If you know that sex before marriage is a sin and you go ahead and commit this act before marriage, you have foreknowledge of wrongdoing.  Going into a sin knowing it is wrong and telling oneself that you are counting on forgiveness after that sin is committed compounds that sin. 

You see, God sees and knows our every action before that action is done.  Knowingly sinning means that you are walking away from your spiritual core.

You say your faith has taken a backseat to the rest of your life.   I can see you are concerned about the state of your soul and want to recapture the faith you feel is slipping away.  Please find a quiet place and pray to your heavenly Father.   Prayer cements your faith, renews your relationship with God, and boosts your spirituality.  Ask God to sustain and bring forth the faith that has lain docile in your life.   Listen with your heart during your quiet times with the Lord.  Try confession and reconciliation to bring cleansing and courage to your life.  Then watch your faith soar. 

May the Lord be with you. - CatholicView Staff


”Is masturbating a venial sin or a mortal sin?” - Ray

CatholicView Staff:

Yes, I just wanted to know if Masturbating was a sin, venial sin, or mortal sin or just not sin at all. - Ray

 

Dear Ray:

Yes, masturbating is always a sin for it is contrary to God’s ideal law concerning how human beings should live as Christians.  It is considered a venial sin but must be confessed.  There is no excuse or deceiving one’s self in thinking that masturbation is acceptable under certain circumstances or that it is not sinful because “everyone does it.”  I would like to suggest to you that you visit A CatholicView’s article on this subject: http://catholicvu.com/ On the opening page choose “Previous Articles” , once there scroll down to “Masturbation” and click to see the article.

You may also go directly to CatholicView’s article:  http://catholicvu.com/newpage197htm.htm 

God bless, CatholicView Staff

 
”Would it be a mortal sin to leave my husband?” Debra

CatholicView Staff:

I need to know if it is a mortal sin to leave one’s husband who is abusing a substance, refusing to help support his family, and is attempting to sabotage his wife's faith?

 

Dear Debra:

You are not committing a mortal sin.  From the little information you have sent, it seems that you should go to talk to your parish priest about an annulment.

If your husband is using drugs, not supporting your family, and is a hindrance to your religious faith that is certainly grounds for seeking to dissolve your marriage.  You do not say whether your husband is abusive to his children or to you, and that would be an added concern to us.

It is not a sin to protect oneself and your children.  Do not waste time.   Please go to sit down with your priest and discuss this issue in full immediately.   May the Lord give you the courage to move forward. - CatholicView Staff


”My grandfather committee suicide.  Will he go to hell?”
- Heather

CatholicView Staff:

My grandfather committed suicide. He dedicated his whole life to others, and it was the only wrong thing he has ever done. He lived a long and loving life.   Can he still go to heaven? - Heather

 

Dear Heather:

No human can know who goes to heaven or who does not. 

You speak of all the wonderful things your grandfather has done for others in his lifetime.  God sees and understands beyond human understanding all these things.  Take hope in this.  God is a God of goodness and love.  It is up to Him to decide who goes to heaven or who does not for God judges the heart.  No human being can do that.  God knows every single good thing that your grandfather did.  Remember we cannot know what your grandfather said to God during those final moments before actual death took place or if he made peace with Him.  We must hope that you will see your grandfather someday in heaven. 

Keep your faith and your belief in Jesus Christ.   Be worthy to meet your grandfather there someday, God willing.  Go in peace.   – CatholicView Staff

 
”If I find a particle of food in my mouth just before
communion, have I broken my fast?” - Dennis

CatholicView Staff:

On occasion, I will feel a particle of food in my mouth during Mass, even though I have stopped eating an hour or more before it starts. Does swallowing it break the fast? I can't try to pull it out in church.  - Dennis

 

Dennis:

Your Eucharistic fast was not broken if a small particle of “something” was loosed before you received communion.  The fasting rule concerns an actual meal or snack eaten before Holy Communion.  This rule is not meant to be kept by those who need to eat something because of a chronic illness. – CatholicView Staff

 
”My mother suffers from mild retardation and refuses
help.  Any suggestions?”  -Patty

Catholicview Staff:

My mother's childhood was pretty cruel. She suffers from mild retardation. She is suffering from the memories. They are relentlessly haunting her. She lives alone with some help but refuses fulltime care by her children. Everyone (5 children) is suffering spiritually and all are admittedly in terror of being with her because she goes over it and over it. It is mental and spiritual torture for us. Do you have any suggestions? Thank you and God Bless You. - Patty

 

Dear Patty:

I am sorry to hear that your mother is struggling with so much going on in her mind.  She is heavy with this emotional pain.  You must understand that there is nothing you can do immediately to help your mother overcome her “mild retardation” and her obsessive thoughts.  These are symptoms of some brain medical issues.  So, let’s accept this:  your mother is your mother.  She gave you life despite her handicaps.  Be grateful to God for her love that gave you life.  Even though you struggle with your own feelings about your mother’s obsessive need to go over the past, you must also show her respect and patience.  Accept her as she is now.  Pray for her and for her healing.  Take her to the doctor and see what can be done.  And continue your visits knowing that you are going to hear the same stories again and again.  No need to reprimand her for it.  She will continue to obsess whether you like it or not.  Please, do not isolate her because it “tortures” you.   She is the one being tortured by her mental disability.  Your role is just to love.  I know this is going to be difficult because it is hard to hear a “broken record” again and again.   So, work with what you have and ask God to give you the strength and inspiration you need to bring some happiness to your mother.  By doing so, you will build up your own sense of God’s love within yourself that will be shared by all in your life. - CatholicView Staff

 
”We cannot afford to marry at this time but are living
together.  What does the bible say about this?” - Sarah

CatholicView Staff:

I have spiritual beliefs and my mother's family is very religious. I would like to marry my partner but financial reasons stop us at the moment. We live to believe that life is too short and we want to commit each other and we act like a married couple with the same respect as we would have if we were officially married. We are now living together and I want to know if there is any section in the Bible or how God feels if we are living in sin for this. We truly both respect living as partners. I believe in God, and I believe in love he shares. Some would say it is not for us to judge and no one really gives me an answer. Could you? Thank you. - Sarah

 

Sarah:

Certainly you must know that your soul is in jeopardy here.  You are living in sin and committing fornication.  It would be better to get married than to continue sinning.   St. Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:9  “But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion”.  1 Timothy 5:14,  “So I counsel the young to marry, to have children, to manage their homes and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.”

You are right in saying life is short.  What will happen to you if you die in sin?  Acting like you are married is not being married in God’s eyes.  If you cannot marry, then do not engage in sexual sin until you are able to do what the Lord teaches.  Sex is for marriage and procreation.  You cannot change God’s decrees.  Please consider how our Father in heaven views our actions.  – CatholicView Staff 

 
”Can
two catholic cousins marry each other?” - Pablo

CatholicView Staff:

Can 2 catholic cousins marry each other? If so, can they get married in a Catholic Church? - Pablo

 

Pablo:

First cousins cannot marry in the Church without a dispensation from the bishop of the diocese.   Any family relationships that is closer than that (brother/sister, parent/child) is considered an impediment for a valid sacramental marriage.  Also considered an impediment to a valid marriage is a marriage between godparent and godchild. – CatholicView Staff

 
”Is it a mortal sin to shop or eat out on Sundays?” - Cece

CatholicView Staff:

Is it a mortal sin to shop or eat out on Sundays? - Cece

 

Dear Cece:

There is no mortal sin committed if you want to shop or dine out on Sundays.  The Church does ask that you refrain from work (career-wise) and meditate on God and reserve that day for spiritual activities and attendance at Mass with the whole Christian community. – CatholicView Staff


”Do I need to stop my faith and marriage because
I made mistakes?” - William

CatholicView Staff:

I am a Catholic and married in the Church. In my foolish and younger days before being in the Church I was divorced 3 times when I went to sea. I am since the prodigal son and love my wife who thinks I am a widow which I was when we met.   This is the only marriage the Church knows of.   I have since been forgiven for my sins of youth...do I need to stop my faith and marriage because I made mistakes?   Please help me, I am in the middle of my RCIA and will be confirmed in late summer.  Please, I don’t know if I can take the Eucharist on Sundays or not.   I feel I have been resolved of my guilt.  I am waiting for an answer if you can help me.  Thanks. - William

 

Dear William:

I am sorry that I do not know what you are asking but I will try to give you an answer.  You have said that you were divorced three times, so I presume that you were only married civilly (and not in the church) those three times.  I also presume that one of your past wives has since died.  Your present marriage happened in the church.  That present marriage is the only valid marriage you have.  Since you have gone to confession and have confessed all the “sins of your youth” as you say, then you have nothing to concern yourself in regards to your relationship with the church.  You are free to receive communion and the sacrament of confirmation as you complete the Rites of Christian Initiation for Adults.  One thing that concerns me is that you have not been totally honest with your wife concerning your past.    That may be something you need to do with your wife.   Your “secrets” may actually be an impediment to a valid sacramental marriage (and therefore a reason for an annulment in the future) since you knowingly kept an important and necessary part of your life from your wife.  Think about this.  I hope you can sit down with your wife and truly be reconciled with your past by explaining what happened in your youth.  I hope she doesn’t find out about your past through some other means.  If so, you could have a major problem on your hands. - CatholicView Staff

 
” If you are clinically brain dead, where is your soul?” - Sandy

CatholicView Staff:

If you are clinically brain dead, where is your soul? - Sandy

 

Sandy:

Your soul is what gives the body life.  The soul is the energy and life force that is you.  If your brain is “clinically dead,” your soul is still in the body giving life, even if that body is on outside medical life support systems. – Catholicview Staff

 
”Does a person need to accept Jesus to receive the
Holy Spirit?” - Ashley

CatholicView Staff:

Do you need to accept Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior to receive the Holy Spirit? - Ashley

 

Dear Ashley:

As a Catholic, I presume that you have accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior of your life.  That is the prerequisite for receiving the charisms of the Holy Spirit.  If you do not have Jesus as the center of your life, the Holy Spirit doesn’t have much to work with. – CatholicView Staff

 
”I did not get an annulment from my first marriage. 
Will the Church baptize my children?” - Margaret

CatholicView Staff:

I am Catholic and got married in a Catholic Church to a Greek man. We divorced. I remarried in an Armenian Church to an Armenian man. We now have three children (ages 6 and under), all who have NOT been baptized. We would like raise our children Catholic. Will the Catholic Church baptize our children even though we did not get married in a Catholic Church and the fact that I have not applied for an annulment from my first marriage? - Margaret

 

Dear Margaret:

The marriage that you have with your Armenian husband is considered a valid sacramental marriage in the Armenian Church.  You do not state if the Armenian church you got married in was (1) The Armenian Catholic Church, (2) The Armenian Orthodox Church, (3) The Armenian Apostolic Church.  All three churches have different canons regarding the sacramental validity of your marriage.  Nonetheless, some kind of “annulment” process had to have happened before you were allowed to marry in any Armenian church.  So, in most usual circumstances, your present marriage would be considered sacramentally valid in the Roman and Armenian (both acknowledge the Bishop of Rome, the Pope, as universal pastor of the Church) Catholic Churches (as versus the Orthodox and Apostolic rites).  If you wish to bring up your children in the Roman Catholic Church, you could have your children baptized if (1) you make a profession of faith for the Catholic Church through the Rites of Christian Initiation (RCIA), and (2) have a written permission from your Armenian Catholic/Orthodox/Apostolic husband for the baptism to be performed in a Roman church.  My question is this:  why not have your children baptized in the Armenian Church?  The aforementioned Armenian churches are ALL apostolic churches (meaning that all three churches have maintained apostolic succession) and have valid sacraments.  CatholicView Staff

 
”My husband is always angry at me and had an affair. 
When is it time to come it quits?” – Marie-Josephine

CatholicView Staff:

I have been married for 27 years, my husband is always angry with me. He had an affair 10 years ago and had the 23 year old living with us. I told him that we would work it out and I have tried. When is it time to call it quits, or should I? He won't go to counseling. He is angry at the world and I don't know how to make him happy. He is a disabled veteran and is only 48 years old. He blames me for his unhappiness. I am trying to find work so I can help him out, but when I do he says you will never find work. He kicked my son out at age 19 with nothing because he did not have a job. He finally let him back into the house for visits after 7 years of my son being homeless. I am trying to help my daughter get off of drugs and I need to take her to the clinic daily he objects to that. She no longer lives with us either. I hope I can get some insight as to what I should do. I pray daily and have not heard what God wants me to do. Some days I can't take it any longer. I am Catholic and he is not. He complains that I am not affectionate and yet when I try to be he doesn't want to have any thing to do with me. He is taking medication for high blood pressure and that interferes with his ability to enjoy intimacy and of course that is my fault as well he gets angry when it does not work. What am I to do? I am tired of being afraid I will anger him. I need some help. – Marie-Josephine

 

Dear Marie – Josephine:

Something is terribly wrong with your husband emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.  He does need the intervention of a medical professional to help him get back on track with his life.   Your marriage vows that you both shared say that you would be with each other through good times and bad.  You have lived your marital vows with bravery and strength.  But there are times when you must set the boundaries to your husband’s abusive behavior that stems from his deep depression.  You must stand up for yourself and your own sense of God-given dignity.  Your marital vows do not give permission for your husband to walk all over you.  If he doesn’t want to get help, then you must.  You need to find a professional counselor who will help you manage and steer your life through this emotional minefield.   And as a mother, you need to do all you can for the healing and health of your children too.  So, if he doesn’t like your support of your daughter’s struggle over addiction, then “tough luck.”  And if you want to see your son and he doesn’t like it, “too bad.”  You must do what you need to do for everyone in your family, not just him alone.  That’s why you need some help in the form of formal counseling so that you can understand why you have made decisions that seem to hurt you in the long run.  And pray.  Ask the Lord to walk with you as you take charge of your life. – Marie-Josephine

 
”Does divorce permanently excommunicate you
from the Church?” - Sarah

CatholicView Staff:

My parents were divorced when I was 7 years old. Ever since then, they never really talked about the Faith or took me to Mass. I have had to basically grow in faith on my own through the guidance of my religion classes at my Catholic high school. As you can imagine, never really speaking to my parents about the Faith has made it difficult to talk about certain issues. My mom goes to church with me maybe 2 times a year. I have often wondered why she has no interest in receiving the Eucharist or Reconciliation. Does divorce permanently excommunicate you from the Church? I know that she has difficulty with some beliefs of the Church, but would there be any other reason that she doesn't receive the Eucharist? - Sarah

 

Sarah:

Divorce in itself does not stop anyone from receiving communion.   Divorce is not the issue.  Divorce and remarriage is the problem.  If your mother wishes to remarry, she will have to go through an annulment process for her to remain sacramentally active in the church.  But divorce alone is not a reason for your mother not to be active sacramentally in the church.  I would encourage her to go to confession and communion often (as there is nothing stopping her from what you tell me).  I cannot speak for your mother.  Maybe she does not want to be active in the church because of what happened in her marriage, or because of the counsel she may have received, but she alone can tell you if she wants to.  When the time is right, your mother will be reconciled to the church on her own terms. – CatholicView Staff

 
”Is there a difference between being in a state of mortal sin
and being excommunicated?” - Sarah

CatholicView Staff:

Is there a difference between being in a state of mortal sin and being excommunicated? Both states cut you off completely from God, so it seems that anytime you commit a mortal sin you are excommunicated.  - Sarah

 

Dear Sarah:

Excommunication is a legal, canonical term meaning that a person is cut off from the community of the Church throughout the world.  While sin affects your spiritual relationship with God and the Church, sin is considered to be “internal forum,” meaning it is really between you, God and your relationship with the Church.  So, even though mortal sin does destroy our relationship with God, it can always be healed through His loving forgiveness and the sacrament of Penance.  Excommunication is a formal, external canonical and legal sentence issued by a bishop or church tribunal (court) for an act that could be criminal, or an act that is destructive to the unity of the church and its teachings.  I have provided you with a link that explains the legal process of excommunication from the Church and its biblical foundations.  http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/05678a.htm  - CatholicView Staff

 
”I am a recovering alcoholic.  If I participate in
communion will I break my sobriety?” - Jenine

Catholicview Staff:

I am a recovering alcoholic, clean and sober 16 years.   I went to confession today.  If I participate in communion will I break my sobriety?    I have been avoiding mass because of this fear.   I usually go to other denominations, because they use grape juice instead of wine.  Jenine

 

Dear Jenine:

Please do not distress yourself because you are unable to receive the wine.  God understands this problem.  Stay within your own Church and receive the Body of Christ, knowing the Lord is smiling down on your faith in Him. 

There is nothing wrong or sinful in only receiving the bread.   Surely you must have noticed others who cannot have the wine during the sacrament of communion.   Be at peace. – CatholicView Staff

 
”How can an omnipotent, omniscient God not address
Allah, Buddha, or Vishnu?” - Jonathan

CatholicView Staff:

I ask because I am deeply confused.  How can an omnipotent, omniscient God not, at some point in the previous millenia, address Allah, or Buddha, or Vishnu, etc.? Those religions themselves preclude our God, so I am just at a loss.

I appreciate your thoughtful response.  Thank you, Jonathan

 

Dear Jonathan:

God always intervenes in human history.   The bible is one big account of the intervention of God into human affairs!   But who sees and hears these interventions of God if someone is not listening and seeing?  God intervened at the beginning of creation, created humankind as FREE WILL agents, yet Adam and Eve broke their relationship with God despite them knowing the voice of God.  Noah knew of the intervention of God, yet despite that, when the flood was over, sin almost immediately entered human history again because human beings are FREE WILL agents.  I am reminded of the account of Jesus' story about the rich man who died and wanted to return to warn his family about hell:  (Luke 16:24-31): Then Abraham said, "If they will not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded if someone should rise from the dead."    We must be open to God's intervention to understand what God wants us to do, but we are free to accept or reject God's intervention.

That said; let me address maybe some misconceptions.  First, Allah is another name for the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the Arabic word for God.  So, we do share the belief of one God with those who follow Islam.   As for Buddha, the Buddhists follow a path that brings them into complete union with the universal life force of which the first Buddha, a human being, accomplished by being fully realized in nirvana.  These religions do NOT preclude our God, but is a different cultural path to the one Creator.  What makes us different is that we as Christians believe that God is a personal Being, creating all around us and in us.  That Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior, and that He died and rose from the dead to bring all to salvation.   Jesus Christ will save all.  In Colossians 1:15-20, Saint Paul writes a hymn to this subject:  "For in Him all fullness was pleased to dwell, and through Him to reconcile all things for Him, making peace by the blood of His cross through Him, whether those on earth or those in heaven."   All things will be reconciled in Jesus Christ.  That is truth.  There are many roads to the Creator but only one mediator and one savior who is Jesus Christ.  Even if those religions do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as Lord, they will be judged by Him according to the dictates of their conscience (see Romans 2:12-16) in which Saint Paul writes:   "For when the Gentiles who do not have the law BY NATURE observe the prescriptions of the law, they are a law for themselves even though they do not have the law.  They show that the demands of the law are written on their hearts, while their conscience also bears witness."   ALL will be judged by Jesus Christ whether you are Christian or not.

I do not know if God intervened or even tried to intervene in the makers of the great religions of the world.  All I know that there are as many paths to God as there are human beings.  And we can hear and see the Hand of God if only we are open to God Himself.  So, do not judge the other religions.  All are geared to one day be reconciled in Jesus Christ when everything will be united with Him at the end of time.  You must be the best Christian you can be in your actions, inner life, and in your destiny. – CatholicView Staff

 
”I have embarrassing scars.  Can I get tattoos to
cover them?” - Annie

CatholicView Staff:

I have embarrassing scars on my chest (breasts), shoulders, and back. Unfortunately they aren't the kind of scars that can be treated with anything other than expensive cosmetic surgery, but tattooing is an option. Since I'm not getting the tattoos to make myself look more appealing, or as an act of rebellion (just to make myself feel better- I can't even look at myself in the shower), would this be a sin? I can't live with them as they are now, and I'm not doing it for anyone else, just myself. Thank you. - Anne

 

Dear Annie:

CatholicView is so sorry that you are suffering with the scarring on your body. 

There is no official teaching against having a tattoo that I know of.  If you are not talking about radical, demonic or Satanist tattoos, just simple ones that are not morally offensive or suggestive, and if this will give you peace of mind, there is no sin involved. But anything intended to be sexually provocative, contrary to religion, or excessive could very well be a mortal sin.

I would advise you to try other options that are available before taking this final step.  CatholicView Staff


”What are the teachings of homosexuality i.e. the
Catholic view? - Fahima

CatholicView Staff:

I am a 19 year old student from the United Kingdom. I stumbled across this website while researching for a project and I have a question which poses difficult for me to answer because I have no catholic knowledge. What are the teachings of homosexuality i.e. the Catholic view?   I would be forever grateful if you could kindly answer my question. Thank you- Fahima

 

Dear Fahima:

On the question of homosexuality, the Church teaches that to be homosexual is not a sin but to act on it sexually is a sin.  In fact, any sexual act outside of marriage is a sin for heterosexuals as well.  The Church also teaches that marriage is solely between a man and a woman, designed for procreation of family.  -  CatholicView Staff

 
”Do I need to be rebaptized to become Catholic?”
- Graham

CatholicView Staff:

If I was baptized as a non-denominational Christian, do I need to be confirmed or baptized as a Catholic to become a Catholic? - Graham

 

Dear Graham:

If a person has already been baptized in another Christian denomination, either Protestant or Eastern Orthodox, they are called a Candidate.  They do not need to be re-baptized but they must attend RCIA, the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults.  RCIA is the Church's way of helping people become members of the Roman Catholic Church.

The Church is concerned with the formation of a person into a total understanding and belief in the Church community, so that he or she can comfortably pray and serve within that community. It is a gradual process that culminates with the sacraments of initiation, baptism for those not already baptized, Confirmation, and First Communion generally happens at Easter time. – CatholicView Staff  

 
”My daughter’s priest refused to ask a man to remove
his hat.  Should she be upset?” - Linda

CatholicView Staff:

My 17 year old daughter serves at a different church. She politely asked a gentleman to remove his hat. He did not. She asked the priest (her favorite and highly esteemed) if he would talk to him. He said,"no". This upset her. She has served for several years and loves him very much and feels betrayed. Should she come with us or stay and set an example? Thanks! Linda

 

Linda:

I would agree with the priest.  I am going to tell you something that happened to me as pastor of a parish.  One of the ushers at my parish church went up to a young man who was wearing a hat in church one Sunday.   The usher told him in an emphatic way to take off his hat.  He refused to do so.  After what seemed a long time arguing about this issue, the mother of the young man came up to me and explained that since her son had cancer and had lost all his hair from chemotherapy, her son felt ashamed and embarrassed by taking off his hat for anyone.   Her son was shaking and crying even though he was 14 years old.  She was crying and very upset saying such things as what kind of church do we have that is mean and judgmental.  I apologized for the usher’s actions and, later, I took the usher aside privately and explained that there would be no more confrontations of this type.  We cannot judge anyone nor can we understand why some people leave their hats on or off at any church service and they do not have to explain to anyone their reason for wearing a hat in any church service or Mass.  We have the custom here in the USA to take off our hats as a sign of reverence and respect.  In other countries and cultures, keeping your hat on is a sign of reverence and respect.  Each culture has its own way of expressing the specialness of any event including religious events.   Jesus did not command us to take off our hats because He was only interested in our salvation.  He also commanded us to love one another.  In Romans 12:9, Saint Paul writes under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit these words:  Let love be sincere; hate what is evil and hold on to what is good.  Love one another with mutual affection; anticipate one another in showing honor.  Also in Ephesians 4:2:   With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another through love, striving to preserve the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace.   And that demands understanding when something is amiss in our estimation.   Jesus commands us in Luke 6:37:  Stop judging and you will not be judged.   Stop condemning and you will not be condemned. (Please read this most important chapter on Christian behavior in the whole chapter of Luke 6).  I would say to your daughter to continue her service at her parish church.  Her service is very much appreciated by her parish priest and the parish community there.  But she must understand that she is being called by the Lord not to judge or command others but to love and accept people as Jesus did even when someone does something she interprets as being disrespectful. 

Sadly, that young man who did not take off his hat when "commanded" by our usher that Sunday morning never came back to our parish church.  I think of him at times, regretful that he had such a terrible and painful experience in my parish church.  I pray that this young man is well and that he did not lose faith in the God that made him and loves him no matter what.  CatholicView Staff

 
”Can parishioners complain to their bishop about a
decision of their parish priest?” -   Molly

 

CatholicView Staff:

If members of a parish strongly disagree with a given decision of their parish priest, do they have the option to complain directly to their bishop?   Can they do this, and has it been done?   Thank you.  Molly

 

Molly

If you disagree with your pastor’s decision concerning parish policy, and after you have talked to him about this decision and your reasons for your disagreement, and if you feel that you have not received a fair hearing, you can make an appointment with your local bishop to discuss this issue.  You could also write a letter to the bishop (and send a copy to the pastor – that’s only fair) and explain your situation.  Parishioners have always appealed to their bishop when they disagree with a pastor’s decision.  But understand that you may or may not receive a favorable answer from your bishop. - CatholicView Staff

 
”Can a priest report a serious crime heard in the
confessional?”  - Carmine

CatholicView Staff:

If someone commits murder and goes to confession but refuses to turn himself over to the police could the Priest turn him in?? Even if this means freeing an innocent man who was sentenced to prison because he was wrongly found guilty of the crime the man confessing actually committed? – Carmine

 

Dear Carmine:

The priest must always maintain absolute secrecy about anything that a person confesses. For this reason, confessionals were developed with screens to protect the anonymity of the penitent. This secrecy is called "the sacramental seal," "the seal of the confessional," or "the seal of confession."

Quoting Canon 983.1 of the Code of Canon Law, the Catechism states, "...It is a crime for a confessor in any way to betray a penitent by word or in any other manner or for any reason" (No. 2490). A priest, therefore, cannot break the seal to save his own life, to protect his good name, to refute a false accusation, to save the life of another, to aid the course of justice (like reporting a crime), or to avert a public calamity. He cannot be compelled by law to disclose a person's confession or be bound by any oath he takes, e.g. as a witness in a court trial. A priest cannot reveal the contents of a confession either directly, by repeating the substance of what has been said, or indirectly, by some sign, suggestion, or action. A Decree from the Holy Office (Nov. 18, 1682) mandated that confessors are forbidden, even where there would be no revelation direct or indirect, to make any use of the knowledge obtained in the confession that would "displease" the penitent or reveal his identity.

Each priest realizes that he is the ordained mediator of a very sacred and precious sacrament. He knows that in the confessional, the penitent speaks not so much to him, but through him to the Lord. Therefore, humbled by his position, the priest knows that whatever is said in confession must remain secret at all costs.  Please go to this link where this information, written by Rev. William Saunders, was taken.   http://catholiceducation.org/articles/religion/re0059.html  CatholicView Staff

 
”If one carries a certain prayer on their person and dies,
will they be taken up to heaven?” - Mary

CatholicView Staff:

I read somewhere and of course, I don't remember where, that if you carry a certain prayer on your person that upon death you will be raised up to heaven and your family in purgatory also. Have you ever heard of this?

Thank you so much and I pray for all the priests daily!

 

Dear Mary:

Thank you for your question.  Sadly, no one can be saved by having a copy of a prayer on his or her bodies.   It is by being obedient to Jesus Christ in all things that saves us.   As to your family, they must stand on their own faith, living the life set forth for all Christians.  There are no free rides.  When we stand in the final judgment before our Lord, we will be judged, not by what was on our bodies but by the life we led on earth.  Jesus will ask all of us “Did you love me?  Did you keep my commandments?  Did you tell others the good news of the kingdom by my actions and by my deeds?”

Thank you for your prayers.  May the Lord walk with you always. - CatholicView Staff

 
”Would it be wrong of me to have rhinoplasty simply
to ease my own suffering? - MS

CatholicView Staff:

Would it be wrong of me to have rhinoplasty simply to ease my own suffering? - MS

In the last 5 years or so I have wanted to get this surgery. I am healthy and grateful and feel bad that I keep focusing on the exterior. I was dubbed "the witch" growing up and can't imagine what stories children will have of me when I am old and gray, it breaks my heart. I know that I would feel like I have done God wrong by getting the surgery, there are so many people in the world in such terrible conditions.and there I am, getting a nose job! But I also feel that it would help me have closure in my life. What do I do? - MS

 

MS:

There is no specific moral theological argument against plastic surgery for the sake of correcting something like your nose.  There is a problem when plastic surgery becomes an obsession for people so much so that it takes their peace of mind away from them.  That’s when plastic surgery becomes an occasion of sin.  If fixing your nose is a way to bring peace to your inner self, then that’s up to you.  There is no sin involved in making a correction.  CatholicView Staff

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